And now the next chapter of my personal true story of knowing "Randolph L. Blosch" for the last 30 years....Randy really has the "gift of Gab" and can talk to anybody and make them believe every word he tells them. That is why he made such a good Used Car Salesman back in his younger days when he use to brag to me about how many cars he sold at the Ford Dealership in Republic, Mo to little old ladies who didn't know what they were doing, to "country bumbkins" who believed everything he told them about that old used pick up truck. If you have met Randy Blosch, then you know how personable he can be....but unless you have stood in the way of Randy getting what he wants or who he desires, then you probaly haven't seen his "Dark Side" like those of us who had what he desired or what he wanted.
I know first hand how Randy's "Silver-Tongue" has convinced me to believe in him at times and to trust him, even when I knew I shouldn't have...and how he could talk my wife, Barbara Smith, while we were married to listen to him and believe in whatever he told her was true. So even though my "friend" Randy Blosch was the "Best Man" at my wedding to Barbara in 1985 and the "Godfather" to my daughter in 1986, Randy still LUSTED for my wife Barbara, and just kept hanging around at our house in Republic, Mo all of the time to see me and our kids, but in reality even then, I knew he wanted Barbara for his very own. Proof of this became more obvious as his visits would become more often in the early afternoon while I was still at work and my wife Barbara was home with our kids or alone if they were in school.
I don't know how many times after a long day at work i'd come home and there was Randy already in my living room on my couch talking to my wife. I was trusting of my wife, Barbara to a fault and never thought once that she would ever cheat on me, especially with Randy. But still I knew that Randy was not to be trusted, and that his Silver-Tongue was probally already working on Barbara anyway. To this day I don't think my wife Barbara ever cheated on me with Randy, while we were married, but I have no doubt it wasn't for lack of effort on his part !
This would be proven to be true after the night I told you about already, when my wife, Barbara and I were talking in our bedroom about what we both needed to do to keep our marriage going and to make it stronger to save it from failing. Barbara told me that night while crying how our "friend" Randy Blosch had told her a few days earlier that instead of working on saving her marriage to me, she should " just leave me and then marry him"....all "because he was better and could make more money than I ever would ! "And how Randy had tried to kiss her and she had to push him away !
Barbie assured me that she didn't love Randy and that she wouldn't ever love him because he was to selfish and self-centered and then went on to say..." He is kind of a snake in the grass"..."but I still feel sorry for him and hope he finds somebody to love"
So from Barbara's words telling of Randy's lack of integrity as a "Snake in the grass"to mine telling of his low morals as a "Silver-Tongue Serpent"....we both knew way back then that Randy could be a good guy and we let him be our friend, since he didn't have anybody else that called him a friend....but my wife and I both still knew to be careful with having the "snake" around as you never know when they will turn on you and bite !
So I ask you again.....What type of man, a man with "integrity" and "high moral values"and a christian man would ever not only LUST for his friends wife, but say things and do things to not only cause a rift in their marriage but just flat out tell the wife that she "should just leave her husband and marry him" ! ??? What type of sleezy-slimball snake does that ???.....Answer= Randolph Blosch !
Of course a REAL man of integrity and high christian moral values would of done the complete opposite of what Randy did....A real man and "friend" of this married couple would of not only talked to them about how they needed to stay together individually, but would of spent as much time as needed to talk to Barbara and I together to discuss what we needed to do to save our marriage and keep our big family of our 4 kids together too. So instead of Randy using his "gift" of a silver-tongue to convince Barbara and I to try harder on doing whatever it took to stay together and use his wisdom to our good, Randy instead saw this as the opportunity HE needed to help drive us apart in hopes of him someday taking my place as Barbara's husband!
A real friend and christian man would of helped bring a married couple closer together again, while a person of Randy's low morals only thought of himself and thus worked only on his behalf to make sure my marriage would never stay together and then later made sure Barbara and I would never get back together.
Thus I ask you again....What man and what type of man helps end a marriage and then makes sure it never gets the 2nd chance it deserved, only to marry his "friend's" ex-wife and acts like it was no big deal and why would I be upset that my "Best man" at my wedding who tried to get my wife to leave me and cheat on me with and for him? I don't know...why would anybody find that not SLEAZY??? I know alot of people who have been divorced and have remarried once, twice or more...but NOBODY I know has ever married a "friends" ex-wife or husband , even if they didn't play a role in their break-up ! It's just wrong in so many ways !
But of course my ex-wife just didn't fall in love with Randy, the man she called a "snake in the grass" and decide to marry him as the man of her dreams....oh no....he had to lie, deceive, trick, and play every dirty card up his sleeve to pull that off.....The "Silver-Tongue Serpent" was about to strike again..... The final chapter is next ....
