As I continue to tell the true story of "Randolph Blosch" ,as I knew him as my "Friend, Best Man , Godfather to my Daughter and then Self-Centered, selfish and Back Stabbing sinner".....The quote in the blog tiltle above is from the spring of 1993 by my wife of 8 years at the time, Barbara L. Smith...."He really is a snake in the grass" ...after she had just told me that my friend and best man at our wedding service had told her a few days earlier that she should just leave me and then marry him, because he was better and could make more money to make her life better !    Barbara told me this one night as we talked in our bedroom after our four kids had gone to sleep as we tried to work on keeping our marriage going.   We both had been taking our marriage lightly like alot of couples do in a busy family with four kids.    Working on our marriage seemed to always take a backseat to the everyday problems of raising kids , working and paying bills.   

        So as Barbara sat their crying to me about how she wanted us to work harder on our marriage to make it work and that she still loved me and I told her that I loved her too, is when she told me what our "Friend" Randolph Blosch had told her about leaving me for him.  Barbie told me that she "always just felt sorry for Randy and hoped he would find a woman to love , but that she did not love him and that he wasn't somebody she could ever love.... "  I knew that Randy was always jealous of me being married to Barbie since she was so beautiful and such a fun and sweet woman.    And I knew about Randy's past of using people and stepping on anybody to get what he wanted in life.    But I still believed that he had enough moral integrity and charactor that he would never come between my wife and I and our four kids....but I was wrong for trusting a person that I knew better too.

       So even though Barbie and I stayed together for a few more months after she told me about what Randy had said, the idea was now in her head and she knew if she did decide to leave me instead of doing the work we needed to do to keep are family together, she would have another option.   So as Barbie and I both had doubts about what to do and how to do it, We decided that I move out on a trial basis.    That was the fatal mistake as now it was easier for Randy to influence her more and she became very "Close Friends" with another man at our church in Rebublic, Mo...I'm sure he was just trying to be there for her since he knew she was still married to me...As it turned out they became more than friends and were together all of the time and one day while I was at work at my store, she comes in and looks me in the eye and tells me that ..."You no longer have a place in my life and I want a divorce".....I about fell to my kness as that knife went through my heart !

      So by November 1993 only 3 days after our 8th wedding anniversary , Barbie and I were divorced.     So a love that was so great and filled with happiness and hope had  ended too soon without us even really trying to save it.    So even though Barbie didn't leave me for Randy Blosch at this time, his sinner ways and words he told her while we were married played a role in our marriage ending !

     Remember that Randy Blosch was my "Friend, Best Man and Godfather to my daughter", so if he was a true man of God and Faith instead of breaking one of the "Ten Commandments" of "Thou Shall Not Covent your Neighbors Wife" ....he would of been talking to her about what she needed to do to save our marriage and family and the same thing with me !

       So instead Randy Blosch showed that he was nobody's friend but his own once again and just Stabbed me in the Back like he had done many others over his lifetime to get or try to get whatever he wanted !   So do you really think that this man has really changed and that his integrity and moral charactor has ever improved since these sins a few years ago???      As I tell the final part of this story in my next blog entry, you will find out that he didn't changed and was still after Barbie and even Said he could kill  her boyfriend at the time or have him killed as he told me one night alone in his apartment....This man was set on getting Barbie, no matter what...and to do so, he even Lied to me again and Stabbed me in the Back again as he did it !    

       So before my next and final entry on this story....Would you want a man on a Judge's bench that doesn't even follow God's Law let alone our Laws of the Land ???