I was proven to be the only person telling the truth with my posts here about "Randy Blosch" about his sins and slimball actions against my family and myself the last 20 years. As my daughter , Amanda had to find out once again first hand for herself this last week.
The last few years Amanda has been doing her best as a single mother and has done a great job...but at the same time she knew she needed some help from her mom and Randy and has always had to let them have way too much influence on her and her life choices as everything that Randy and her Mom did for her ALWAYS had "Strings and conditions" attached.
By doing so it enabled both Randy and Barbie to have control of Amanda and her kids lives. It would appear that since Barbie decided to stop being a REAL mom to her own kids so she could be a wild and free single woman with many new boyfriends after divorcing me and before she had to settle on marring Randy as she was broke and in deep debt , and Randy was willing to buy her hand in marriage even it there was never any real love. Barbie put running around with her much younger boyfriend, C.J. and her Hair Dresser , Mike and then her Boss , Billy...all ahead of her 4 children and now wants to get back her lost motherhood by being the "Mother" of her grandson, Landon and not the Grandmother.
And since Randy has no kids of his own, he too seems to want to be a father to his Step-Grandson , Landon and has done many evil things to come between Landon and his REAL father, Wayne Petersen over the last 4 years. Both Randy and Barbie have done nothing but talk bad about Wayne to Amanda and have always encouraged her to not let him spend any time with his son, Landon.
And though Wayne was not perfect, as none of us are, he was a good man trying to be in Landon's life as much as possible and when he was down here from St. Louis the week before he was killed working as a Highway Flagman in a construction zone, he was so upset at both Barbie and Randy that he told me he was going to go up to see them in Bolivar and tell them in person that they were not going to keep him from seeing his son !
Thus as Wayne poured out his feelings to me I listened and gave him the advice not to talk to them and to just work things out with Mandy on visitation rights and then to go to court and have it all done legally so his rights as a Father would not ever be denied.
So to show you the difference in my caring heart and the "Cold-Blooded" heart of Randy Blosch as I was giving Wayne comfort and support in his quest to be in his son's life to the point were , Wayne told me as he was choking back tears.." Kevin you know I appreciate all you have done for me and that I think of you as Family" ....... As I did of Wayne !
But guess what Mandy told me what the Cold-hearted and selfish Randy told her the day after Wayne was killed.... " Well Mandy you've just dodged a big bullet now with Wayne gone " Mandy was upset with that remark not just because it showed how cold and selfish Randy Blosch still is, but because Mandy never wanted Wayne out of their son's life ! She was so upset knowing that her son had lost his Dad and all Randy could do was tell her how lucky she was....What type of person who claims to love his step-grandson, would ever want him to lose his real Dad forever ! ??? Just proves that everything I've told about Randy was and still is all too true about his lack of charactor, human kindness, and no morals !
And this all led to Amanda finally deciding that she needed to break free from the hateful and negative controlling influlence of Randy and her mom, Barbie and she decided to move out of their rental house in Buffalo, to break away and that same day, big-bad Randy came over and YELLED at her that she "Didn't know who she was messing with" and that she better not cross him ! So Mandy found out once again that Randy had not changed since the days he use to yell at Mandy's step-sister , Jenny after he married Barbie that "She didn't know who she was messing with and She wasn't going to live in his house" ! And soon after had Barbie take Jenny and Chris to St. Louis and dumped them off with their dad to live ! And Randy claims to be a "Family Man" with four kids?...What a sad lie !
The only person ever important enough for Randy to call Family was and is...HIMSELF ! I guess Randy still has the idea that he is a important man with a title and power so he can control you or make your life hell if he wants too. Good thing the smart voters in Dallas County didn't vote him into a higher power court seat, or his abuse of power would probaly know no bounds !
I will get back to the sad life of Barbie in my next entry, but these current events showing how once again Randy's actions have proven me to have told the truth about him needed to be shown here .... Back to Barbie and her recent actions including a phone call from her tonight to me that I recorded and just shows how in her sad mind , she has never done anything wrong to me, our kids or anybody else and it's ALWAYS everbody else's fault ! She has never taken responsibility for her past sins agains me and our kids or anything else since. It must be nice to live in a "Make-Believe" World where you are perfect and never did anybody else wrong all while you are always the victim and the mistreated person ! She must be the only person in the World who makes Mother Teressa look like a sinner instead of a saint !
I use to think she was just semi crazy because she sold her soul and gave away her family just to have her bills paid and be supported by marrying Randy ...but the fact that she has stayed with this cold hearted and selfish devil on earth , and her recent actions...I now think she is full-blown nut-house-Loco-Crazy !
A sad turn of events in the life of a woman who used to be filled with love and had a heart as big as a whale and now has turned into a bitter and cold hearted grumpy older woman :(